Finding the ideal proposal venue is a big part of your proposal planning. You want it to be romantic, memorable, magical and private enough to have that quiet moment when you propose.
Past proposal trends used to see people jetting off to pop the question abroad but in this new climate we have rediscovered the beauty of the UK, and proposals in England are popular and cost-effective options. So rather than spending on expensive flights, you can put your budget into a more luxurious proposal and the perfect engagement ring.
Grantley Hall – a Magical Proposal Venue in the Yorkshire Dales
As the exclusive private jeweller for Grantley Hall jewellery experiences, we are privileged to have been part of many proposals, engagements and weddings at this unique location in Ripon.
We never fail to be enchanted by this proposal venue’s romantic setting in beautiful formal gardens amongst the rolling hills of the Yorkshire Dales.
Grantley Hall gives you everything you need for the perfect proposal location:
Romantic setting with beautiful views
Picturesque grounds with lots of proposal spots to choose from
Exceptional accommodation and suites for a short stay
Choice of 4 exquisite restaurants, including Michelin-starred Shaun Rankin at Grantley Hall
5 stunning bars to cosy up in and celebrate your engagement with a glass of champagne
A luxury spa and wellness retreat to relax in and pamper your fiancée.
What could be better than proposing at Grantley Hall and then spending special time together in this beautiful location where your every need is catered for to the highest level?
Planning Your Proposal
It can be daunting choosing where and how to propose; you want it to be that perfect moment that your partner will be proud to tell their friends and family about. But you also want to enjoy the occasion and remove any potential stresses that could arise.
Here are our tips and some inspiration for making the perfect proposal:
Plan it around your partner and what they like and enjoy
If they love to be outside in nature then planning an outdoor proposal with a luxury picnic hamper could be a good fit. Or if they like the finer things in life then planning a proposal in an opulent and unusual location could work well.
For a really unique approach, try the Grantley Hall and N.J. Geddes Jewellery Experience. This involves designing your dream engagement ring together as part of your special stay at Grantley. You could even present a beautiful uncut diamond in a box signifying the start of your journey together creating a handcrafted bespoke engagement ring.
The little details make the difference
It’s often the small touches that elevate an occasion and make it run smoothly. Consider, for example, where you will hide the ring, what time of day will you propose, what time of year/season, what will you tell them about your trip and what’s your cover story to keep it a surprise.
If your partner likes to capture moments on social media, then are you choosing an Instagrammable proposal location? And don’t forget to take a photo or video afterwards.
Make the most of the occasion
Following all the build up to the proposal, planning something relaxing together afterwards to celebrate is a great idea. If your proposal is at Grantley Hall then you could treat yourselves to a champagne afternoon tea, spa treatments, a cocktail in the bar or a fine dining experience.
Need some advice?
If you would like advice on choosing an engagement ring or creating your own bespoke ring, get in touch with Neil and he’ll be happy to help.
To enquire about the N.J. Geddes and Grantley Hall Jewellery Experience, you can call Grantley Hall on 01765 620 070 or view more information on their experiences page.
The proposal. A moment of pure romance, demonstrating your love for ‘the one’ and the beginning of the rest of your lives together. Your beautiful fiancée-to-be has dreamt of this proposal with excitement and anticipation. You, on the other hand, might be feeling nervous and unsure – will she accept the proposal and, crucially, will she like the ring …
I know these feelings from experience, and, don’t worry gents, I’m going to share with you some advice that will help you choose the perfect engagement ring.
Choosing an engagement ring – where to start?
Most of the men who come to me for engagement rings start the process feeling overwhelmed and, to be honest, clueless about what type of ring to select for their loved one. It’s completely natural to feel this way and we’re here to support you and to make the process of selecting an engagement ring enjoyable and memorable.
Surprise or choose together
The first decision you need to make is whether you are going to purchase a ring for the proposal or whether you will choose a ring together afterwards.
Here, you’ll have to rely on instinct and how well you know your partner. Is she the type of person who is quite particular about what she wants? Are you unsure what her style is? If yes, then you might want to involve her in the decision-making process. Or perhaps she goes with the flow and has always loved your choices of presents and jewellery in the past? In this case you might feel more confident in selecting the ring yourself.
Selecting a bespoke engagement ring together
If you opt for picking a ring together, you’ll need to consider having a ‘stand-in’ ring for your proposal. Then you still have a ring to present but you can explain how you would like to experience the special event of choosing a ring together. You can really make an occasion of it, especially if you decide to create a bespoke ring with us. We can organise champagne, canapés and petit fours to accompany our engagement ring consultations.
Together we will discuss your fiancée’s style, diamond, jewel and metal preferences in a private and elegant location. We’ll view beautiful hand-painted gouache drawings of engagement rings for inspiration.
Once we have agreed your requirements, we’ll then have our award-winning designer make sketches of the ring for you to review at a second consultation. Depending on the scope of the ring, we may have an additional stage where we approve hand-painted designs. Or our third meeting may be the fitting and presentation of the ring, again with a glass of champagne to celebrate. Making choosing an engagement ring together a very intimate bonding experience that you’re sure to remember forever.
If you’ve decided to select an engagement ring yourself and go for the full surprise proposal, then we are still here to support you. We have a range of off-the-shelf diamond engagement rings available in our boutique, but our most popular request is for a bespoke engagement ring.
We’ll guide you through the creation of a unique engagement ring, but you’ll need to come to our consultation prepped and having done some detective work. So, in advance you’ll need to have a look at her current jewellery collection:
What patterns can you notice?
Which metals does she like? Platinum, rose gold, white gold, yellow gold
What is her style? Classic, vintage, lavish, quirky, demure
Which jewels does she prefer? Diamonds, sapphires, rubies, emeralds – engagement rings don’t have to be diamonds – go with whatever suits her personality and individual style.
Don’t be afraid to ask her friends and family a few discreet questions about what she might like – assuming you can either do this without arousing suspicion or that they can be trusted to keep the secret. Perhaps she’s always dreamt of a particular ring or admires a celebrity’s engagement ring – e.g. Kate Middleton’s sapphire engagement ring is popular at the moment.
“Having thoroughly researched the type of engagement ring I wanted and seeing many examples on the high street, I needed a more bespoke solution combining a number of key features for the diamond, ring setting and ring band. Neil provided the personal service that I found extremely valuable in creating a bespoke ring to my choosing including sourcing me the perfect diamond. My now Wife still gazes at her ring in admiration and I can’t give a better testimony than that. I highly recommend Neil and the tailored advice and service he provides.”
Mr A. Champaneri
Diamond engagement rings – the detail
Once we’ve covered the groundwork and have built up a picture of your partner’s preferences, we get into the detail to finish off the ring. If you are choosing a diamond engagement ring here are a few facts that might be useful – we’ll talk you through all these though, so don’t feel bogged down by the options.
Diamonds – the 4Cs
The Gemological Institute of America (GIA) created the 4Cs as the industry standard for grading diamonds: Cut, Clarity, Colour and Carat weight.
Cut – proportions and shape determine the brilliance and fire within a diamond. A poor cut diamond will not sparkle as much as an excellent cut and polish.
Clarity – all diamonds have natural traces of growth, these are known as internal characteristics. When discussing clarity, we talk about the size, number and location of these characteristics when examined under 10 x magnification. The highest grade is Flawless, the lowest grade is Included (I3).
Colour – in white diamonds is actually graded as the absence of colour, i.e. the whitest it can be. The vast majority of white diamonds actually have yellowish tints. The scale starts at the highest D – colourless and goes down to Z – light yellow/brown.
Carat weight – the weight of a diamond is measured in metric carats. One carat is equal to 0.2g. The larger the weight, the more expensive.
The better the combination of the 4Cs means the greater the quality of the diamond. Does size matter? It is often better to select a diamond with a higher grade cut, clarity and colour than simply choosing the biggest. However, you know what she likes, and if big and sparkly is her thing, then go for it!
If you would like an in-depth look at diamond quality and the 4Cs then take a look at the GIA’s website.
Diamonds are available in all shapes and sizes, including:
Round cut – classic and timeless
Princess cut – square cut, contemporary
Marquise cut – a football-shaped, brilliant cut
Pear cut – elegant, helps to elongate the finger
Emerald cut – rectangular cut
Oval cut – an elongated cut that can give the illusion of a larger diamond
Heart cut – a symbol of love
Cushion cut – a rounded square or rectangle cut.
More choices abound with settings for diamond engagement rings, which incorporate:
Prong setting – acting like a claw to grasp the diamond, often with a solitaire diamond
Channel setting – a row of diamonds side by side
Halo setting – a centre diamond with a halo of smaller diamonds around it
Bezel setting – a modern setting with metal around the shape of the diamond
Invisible setting – an all diamond surface with the setting hidden
Pavé setting – closely setting many smaller diamonds together in a band
Trilogy setting – with three diamonds, symbolising your past, present and future love.
One option that we haven’t mentioned is that of converting a family heirloom into an engagement ring. This is a deeply personal and sentimental approach that might suit you and your partner – if it does, then have a look at how we can remodel jewellery and turn something old into something new.
Engagement ring consultation
There are many options to consider in choosing an engagement ring for your partner, but creating a custom ring means that we’ll guide you through each step, making the process surprisingly simple and enjoyable.
What you’ll end up with is a uniquely exquisite engagement ring that expresses both your love and your partner’s personality like no other.
To enquire about our engagement ring design service please get in touch for a private appointment. We can visit you at any location in the UK or if you are local to North or West Yorkshire you can visit our boutique in Boston Spa.